Teenage Girl Banned by the Football Association For Asking Transgender Opponent “Are You a Man?” Wins Appeal With Help of Free Speech Union

Cerys Vaughan, the 18 year-old girl who was given a six-match ban by the Lancashire Football Association after asking a bearded opponent on a ladies team she was due to play against whether he was a man, has had the sanction overturned with the help of the Free Speech Union. The Telegraph has more.

She has been banned from playing football for asking a transgender opponent: “Are you a man?” She has been discussed and debated on television, online and in parliament. She has become a symbol in the fight against those born male playing in women’s sport. And almost nobody knows who she is.

Until now.

Her name is Cerys Vaughan and she is sitting nervously on a bench in her local park. She is about to break her public silence about her Kafkaesque trial and the extraordinary events that have followed. She has long been afraid to do so – even anonymously – amid the threat of a backlash or of her ban being extended. But she is now ready to tell her story to Telegraph Sport, which has exclusively chronicled her months-long ordeal without her being identified.

She has agreed to speak out following a hat-trick of landmark developments linked to her case. The first of them, it can be revealed, was a successful appeal against the six-match ban imposed on her back in October. The second was last month’s Supreme Court ruling on single-sex spaces – delivered minutes after she was told the case against her had collapsed. But it is the third seismic development which has convinced her it is finally safe for her to come forward: last week’s announcement by the Football Association banning transgender women from the female game in England.

She is nevertheless still anxious when she agrees to meet – the day after that announcement – at a warm and sunny Leyland Park in Hindley, near Wigan. With three full-sized football pitches, it is a place she recalls enjoying many a childhood kickabout with her siblings. She is no longer a child, having turned 18 in January. But, standing at 5ft 5in and wearing a beige hoodie and football shorts from one of the women’s game’s biggest teams, Lyon, she could easily be mistaken for someone much younger. Sitting alongside her are parents Ian and Lynda, who admit to being almost as nervous as their daughter.

All this would be daunting enough for any teenager, let alone one currently on the assessment pathway for autism. But whenever she speaks, she does so calmly and clearly, her suspected condition barely noticeable save for perhaps a certain directness in her manner.

She talks about her earliest footballing memories, saying she began playing around the age of six, when she was good enough to make the school team. Even back then, she says, that team was “girls only”, with a young Cerys playing boys exclusively “at break and lunch” during school hours. “They wouldn’t want to pass the ball to me,” she adds. “They’d leave me out picking teams, even though I was better than all of them.” She talks about what football means to her and how it has helped her make “a lot of new friends”. She adds: “I’m either playing football, watching football, collecting football stickers. It’s everything.”

She is modest about her own footballing ability, saying she does not think she is “good enough” to turn professional. The club she plays for, Leigh Genesis, are in Greater Manchester Women’s League Division 2, where, Cerys says, the focus is less on winning every week and more on women and girls having “fun”. Until last summer, Cerys was doing just that.

Then everything changed.

Her account of what took place on a “boiling” July day has been chronicled in detail by Telegraph Sport – including that it centred on a pre-season friendly between her club and a side it can now be revealed was fielded by Manchester Laces, an openly pro-LGBTQ+ team. Cerys painstakingly goes through it all again: how she asked a transgender opponent with “a beard”: “Are you a man?”; how she raised safety concerns with the referee; how she was confronted about it by a Laces player who then reported her to Kick It Out, triggering an investigation by the Lancashire FA.

That led to her being charged with saying, “Are you a man?”, “That’s a man”, “Don’t come here again”, or similar comments. She was told she faced a ban of up to 12 matches, a sanction she says could have been life-altering for her. She explains she has been studying A-level PE and the course includes a practical element linked to her playing football. She denied the charges but was found guilty by a National Serious Case Panel and banned for six games – four of which were suspended for 12 months.

At each stage in the process, Cerys says she assumed the case would go no further because she thought those involved would know she had not been transphobic. That includes after Telegraph Sport broke the news of her plight back in October. She says: “I remember when the article first came out and I was reading through the comments on the website, and it was nice to see that everyone was on my side.”

Her story had an extraordinary impact, with the likes of former FA chairman Lord Triesman, human rights charity Sex Matters and the Free Speech Union all rallying behind her. There was a protest outside Wembley before England’s Nations League game against Republic of Ireland in November and another before the Lionesses’ friendly against Switzerland at Bramall Lane the following month.

“I was glad that I could be used as an example to support something that I believe in,” she says. “I felt a bit like a little micro-celebrity. It was funny seeing all the posts online and I knew that was me but no one else knew that was me.” She says that, apart from her family and team-mates, only “two or three friends” were aware who she was.

She appealed her punishment with the help of the FSU, which had also been assisting Allison Pearson after police visited the Telegraph columnist’s home over a complaint about a year-old deleted post on social media. Cerys, who served her two-match suspension before being granted permission to appeal, admits she was worried challenging her guilty verdict would result in her being handed “a harsher punishment”.

After a three-month battle, an appeal board of the FA quashed the ruling against her in a damning – and alarming – judgment on the original proceedings. Seen by Telegraph Sport, the written reasons state: she had not received a fair hearing during a three-hour video call that left her in tears; proper consideration had not been given to her age or the evidence against her; and she was wrongly found guilty “by own admission” when she had denied the charges.

Cerys is equally scathing about the original proceedings, during which she says she was asked how many LGBTQ+ players there were on her own team. She adds: “Why did they bother making us do a three-hour call if they already knew before it began that they were going to find me guilty?”

Worth reading in full.

BBC News has also published a story which includes an interview with Cerys.

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NeilParkin
11 months ago

In the light of what has happened since, re the FA and trans players, the actions of the FA just look even more stupid and vindictive than they did in the first place. They treated her appallingly. Thank goodness this young woman has now received the justice she deserved.

RW
RW
11 months ago
Reply to  NeilParkin

She deserves more than that. They’ve deliberately tried to hurt her and probably succeeded. Justice in such a case is not “ok, we agree to pretend we didn’t do it for now.”

transmissionofflame
11 months ago
Reply to  RW

Indeed. The people responsible should be removed from their positions and never allowed to work in sport again.

soundofreason
soundofreason
11 months ago

…and certainly not with children.

huxleypiggles
11 months ago

100% with you on that tof. The bottom line is that tough sanctions must be applied to those carrying out these offences. And offences is what we are talking about here.

Out and out bullying.

EppingBlogger
11 months ago
Reply to  NeilParkin

Now the government is taking control of UK football through a regulator we can expect all sorts of pressures to be applied to clubs and the FA. The quango will want specific provision for Trans players (all 10 of them?).

transmissionofflame
11 months ago
Reply to  EppingBlogger

The “football regulator” is the biggest and worst joke since Gove’s Scotch Eggs.

Gezza England
Gezza England
11 months ago

They will be made to kneel so often there will barely be time for the match.

transmissionofflame
11 months ago

Good for her and the FSU.

RW
RW
11 months ago

Sort-of. People shouldn’t just get away with abusing vulnerable children because of their … [self-censored].

transmissionofflame
11 months ago
Reply to  RW

Indeed. It’s very sad that someone has to deal with this crap when all they want to do is play football. I am fortunate in that do individual rather than team sports and I can pursue them outside of the remit of any sport governing body. Easy for me to say but I would have been tempted to quit the team, see how many people wanted to come with me, and just arrange matches between groups without being affiliated with anything.

RW
RW
11 months ago

For an autist, that’s about as impossible as walking on water. Actually, I think the chances that walking on water could work are way greater. Random story from yesterday evening: I went into the pub I usually go to after a 4km walk through some parts of Reading. I got myself a beer and then, moved to the garden as I was feeling rather hot at that time (I walk quickly) and wanted to have a cigarette and cool off a little. As usual for Fridays, the entrance to the smoking area was essentially blocked by people congregating exactly there. There was plenty of space behind them and so, I – carefully and somewhat awkwardly – moved past a line of three people sitting in chairs, two pretty ugly and fat young women and a guy in a tracksuit. While I was tiptoeing past them, one of the women suddenly jerked her leg into mine. I don’t know if this was just some kind of automatic movement or if she deliberately tried to trip me up but that’s certainly possible. In order to avoid losing my balance, I had to sidestep and in the course of this, a tiny amount… Read more »

transmissionofflame
11 months ago
Reply to  RW

I wish I could help!

RW
RW
11 months ago

I think it’s high time that the professional “sex lifes” are put back into their bottle. It should be possible to play football without having to worry about or deal with other people’s entirely uinteresting sexual preferences. Especially, they shouldn’t be allowed to force this tripe onto minors and punish them for not paying enough attention to it.

Marcus Aurelius knew
11 months ago

So was he a man or not?!

I know that’s not the point. What a brave young woman. I hope she rises to the top of the field, and not just the football field.

Bravo Toby and Bravo FSU!

transmissionofflame
11 months ago

It says the player had a beard. I guess some women can grow beards, or could have been a woman taking some male hormones.

Mogwai
11 months ago

And does anybody know how many professional female footballers stood up and spoke out for Cerys? I don’t know but until I’m proven otherwise I’m going with ‘none’. If that is indeed the case then shame on these women. Anybody, regardless of sex, should be actively opposing this ‘men allowed to play in women’s sports so long as they identify as female’/’be kind’ nonsense, but it’s the women that stay quiet, thereby enabling it to continue, I feel most disgusted with because one would assume that, rationally speaking, they would be the most outspoken about opposing this blatantly unfair, unsafe idiocy. It’s the biggest betrayal of all when even women cannot be trusted to protect women’s sports and instead advocate for and facilitate this harmful crap. It’s what Posie Parker writes about in this ‘stack I shared the other day: why women betray other women. It’s my view that the vast majority of those who are compliant are cowards. See the many who conformed to the scamdemic nonsensical rules and regs for evidence of this; ”As Jo Freeman put it in her blistering exposé of internal sabotage, Trashing: The Dark Side of Sisterhood, “Trashing is not disagreement; it is a particularly… Read more »

transmissionofflame
11 months ago
Reply to  Mogwai

“And does anybody know how many professional female footballers stood up and spoke out for Cerys?”

It’s not something I follow but probably none. Sharron Davies, Martin Navratilova – big names, now retired, less to lose. Sadly it’s a pattern that is followed often. How many tennis players spoke up for Djokovic? Pat Cash did, but he is retired. Kyrgios did but he DGAF. So often anyone who can be sanctioned by some body of association just keeps quiet. Understandable to an extent but it’s so frustrating because I bet a lot of the time there’s a majority who actually do think that something is wrong and if they ALL stepped up then their governing bodies or whatever would be screwed and would have no further hold on them.

soundofreason
soundofreason
11 months ago

*Martina

transmissionofflame
11 months ago
Reply to  soundofreason

No pun intended 🙂

Marcus Aurelius knew
11 months ago
Reply to  Mogwai

So much of competitive sport requires mindless compliance and/or self-censorship. Gymnastics is a prime example. It is very easy for young minds to become totally brainwashed and subservient. Some then wake up and then when they become coaches themselves many decide to take it out on the children.

Mogwai
11 months ago

Well excuse me while I go in search of the world’s smallest violin…You could always form your own trans teams if there are enough of you OR you could actually just play with fellow men. Oops, forgot…You’re actually pretty crap at cricket and don’t make the grade, so that’s why you want to play in the women’s team. You get to have a physical advantage *and* get your affirmation courtesy of the ”be kind” transmaidens; ”For Amelia Short, Jamie Hughes, Alice*, and Anaya Bangar, women’s cricket promised to be a place where they could thrive as their true selves. That was before the England and Wales Cricket Board (ECB) extended the ban on transgender women and girls from the top two tiers of women’s domestic cricket to the third tier and recreational level last Friday. Open and mixed cricket remains available, but that provides little comfort. Short is a 20-year-old trans woman who has loved cricket since she was nine, as well as scoring and coaching more recently. This season, one year into hormone replacement therapy (HRT), she joined Lindow Cricket Club and has relished training and matches with the women’s first XI. Now she is considering giving it all up. “Cricket… Read more »

A. Contrarian
11 months ago
Reply to  Mogwai

“Open cricket is predominantly men and is not the nicest place for women to play cricket.”

Um, yes. That’s kind of the point of this whole thing…